Sunday, July 20, 2008

Claire's Birth and First Few Weeks of Life

  • Labor started Wednesday July 16 at 4:00 am
∑ Went to work and then to dr appt at 11:30 – was told that Claire would be born that day or the next because I was 3-4 cm dialated and 80 % effaced
∑ Dr. Osburn gave us the option to go right to the hospital or wait until contractions became stronger – Sam and I decided to wait, I went in to the office to gather a few items and Sam and I met back home to have lunch and take a nap
∑ We went into the hospital at 5:00 when the contractions became stronger – when I was checked though I had not progressed
∑ Dr Osburn ordered us to walk for an hour, which we did, but still little change
∑ My blood pressure started to rise so they admitted me even though I had little change
∑ We were ordered to walk again for an hour – our nurse’s name was Martha and she was also pregnant – she was extremely helpful and stayed in the room and chatted with us for long periods of time, which was calming
∑ They only let me have ice chips and a popcicle – but I was so hungry
∑ With little change and strong contractions, Dr Osburn offered to break my water to get things moving
∑ Up to this point I have been laboring without meds save an IV with sugar water and an IV with fluids
∑ Dr Osburn came in to check me at 11:00 and broke my water then the contractions started picking up strength and length
∑ I started contracting every 1-2 minutes and on a scale of 1-10 the pain was a 12!
∑ I asked for an epidural at 11:00 pm but the anesthesiologist did not arrive until 12:30
∑ It took almost an hour to get the epidural placed due to the intensity and quantity of contractions – I was getting poked in the back with a needle, having a huge contraction and being kicked by Baby Claire all at the same time!
∑ Dr Osburn came in at 2:00 to check me and told me it was time to push
∑ I pushed for a little over an hour and Claire Elizabeth was born at 3:19 am weighing 6 pounds 9 ounces and 19 inches tall
∑ I had to have an episiotomy, which was not pleasant
∑ I used a mirror to watch the crowning and was able to touch Claire’s head as she was coming out
∑ Sam was extremely helpful throughout the whole labor and birth. He kept me focused and reiterated everything the nurses and doctors said so that I could completely understand the situation. Sam kept me focused on breathing and pushing. I could not have asked for a better partner
∑ I held Claire when she was first born, but she was whisked away by the nurses to weigh her and measure her. Sam held her while Dr Osburn finished up with me. The Dr and nurses left and then it was just us
∑ I breastfeed Claire when she was given back to me
∑ That night I am not sure if I slept much at all – I was so excited to have Claire – but the next day Sam and I slept a lot as did Claire
∑ When Sam and I did sleep one of us held Claire because we did not want to put her down
∑ I really wanted to take a shower the next day but the pain of labor kept me in bed most of the day
∑ The first person to visit Claire was Ashly Dewberry
∑ Kristen Corn, David Parker, and Bethany Heuer came to visit her as well on her first day of life
∑ Flowers were sent by Farrar & Bates (attorneys); Beth, Sam and JP; Emily Cadwell; and the Franklin at Breakfast Rotary Club
∑ We did not let the nursery keep Claire for any period of time – only when they needed to check her
∑ Claire’s first nurse was Kelly and she helped us breastfeed for the first time
∑ Claire was in a traverse position when she was born so she had a little facial bruising and her nose was squashed
∑ Claire’s fingers and toes were so long compared to her hands and feet
∑ The food from the cafeteria was good and we could order whatever we wanted
∑ We were released from the hospital on Saturday, July 19
∑ We first had to stop at Walgreen’s to get supplies and meds – Claire hated the car seat until she fell asleep in it
∑ When we finally got home (I made Sam drive slow) my parents were at the house waiting to meet Claire
∑ Mom and Dad held Claire but Mom did not want to put her down
∑ Sam’s Dad (Sam) and JP also came in to see Claire on their way up to Louisville, KY
∑ The first night was rough – we had to wake her every 2-3 hours to feed her and change her
∑ The next day Sam and I were exhausted but Sam and Dad had to go to Louisville, KY to do work at a golf club
∑ Claire started smiling in her sleep her first Saturday of life
∑ Mom worked with Claire to get her to sleep in her own area, which worked well
∑ Mom also got Claire to take a pacifier
∑ On Monday for lunch, Sam, Claire, Mom, Dad and I went to eat at the Loveless – this was Claire’s first visit to a restaurant, she was great until dessert
∑ Claire’s first doctor’s appointment was July 22, 2008 – she weighed 6 lbs 7 oz which was great! We put her in the watermelon outfit sent by Beth but as soon as she got into the room she pooped and it got all over her outfit so we had to change her. Dr Couden was a little worried about her hips so she made an appointment for us to see an orthopedic doctor
∑ After the doctor appointment, Sam, Claire, Mom, Dad and I went to eat at Molinari’s, she was great the whole time!
∑ Mom and Dad went home on Wednesday morning leaving it just to Sam and I
∑ Claire slept great, in fact we had to set alarms to make sure she got feed every 2-3 hours
∑ Claire had her orthopedic appointment on Friday, July 25, 2008 – the doctor seemed to think her hip would work itself out, but to be on the safe side, scheduled an ultrasound at 6 weeks of age – that whole ordeal lasted 4 hours and Claire did wonderful, we had to feed her in the room prior to seeing the doctor because she was so hungry
∑ Our first weekend with just us went pretty well but by Sunday I had to get out of the house so we took Claire to Target and to the Mall. It was over 95 degrees outside but Claire was great until we got to Wolf Camera in the mall where she decided to poop and not like the feeling of that diaper – Sam changed her in the back of the VW bug in the parking lot of the mall
∑ Claire doesn’t cry much – generally when she is hungry or needs a diaper change
∑ Claire hates to be naked! She does not like bath time or to have her diaper change, which is ironic
∑ When Claire cries it sounds like a mix between a dying cat and a crazy insect and she does not stop until her mouth turns blue and she can’t breathe
∑ Claire’s hair started changing color around day 10 of life

Thursday, July 17, 2008

Introducing Claire Elizabeth Billingsley

Claire Elizabeth Billingsley was born July 17, 2008 at 3:19 am. Claire weighed 6 lbs 9 oz and was 19 in long. We are very excited to have her in our lives!